You’re making thousands of decisions in isolation.

Instead, join Raffy’s village. Some parents have walked this path before you. While others are starting this journey with you.

Group Rules

⁕ Validation first

When someone shares something hard, start with "that sounds really difficult" before offering solutions.

⁕ No medical advice

Share experiences ("this is what worked for us"), never prescribe ("you should do this").

⁕ No judgment of risk tolerance

Every family's comfort level is different. Support their decisions.

⁕ Respect diverse journeys

Some families pursue OIT, some don't. Some avoid traces, some don't. All valid.

⁕ No product shaming

Store-bought is fine. Simple is fine. Whatever keeps your child safe is fine.

⁕ Keep it kind

Disagree respectfully. Debate ideas, never people.

⁕ Protect privacy

What's shared in the group stays in the group. No screenshots without permission.

⁕ Trigger warnings

Use CW/TW for reaction stories, hospitalizations, or traumatic events.

⁕ Kids first

Before posting photos of children, consider their privacy and consent.